I have been practicing BDSM for over 10 years now. I was already looking up information before, since it has always been something that fascinates me. The more information I found, the more I wanted to know. I will always keep on expanding my knowledge, when I put my teeth into a new subject, I will not let go until I know it all.
By now I have a broad experience as a Professional Mistress and I enjoy my work every single day. I cannot imagine a life without BDSM. As a Dominatrix I am who I want to be and I can live my life to the fullest. After all, I am doing something I really enjoy doing. Letting men suffer is something that gives me great joy. I feel a rush of excitement when I hear men groan in pain and pleasure. When I humiliate him and when he gives me the trust to give him an extensive mindfuck, I am in my element. When he is submissive to me, when he does things for me because he knows I want it and he enjoys pleasing me...
I aim for perfection in a session which I will do in my own way. Because I play with different slaves and because every day is different, the perfect session is never the same. For example, I hugely enjoy a painful whipping session, or I love to create a new pattern with candle wax or I am having fun driving a slave crazy with desire in an erotic session. I love it when my slave is suffering visibly, whether that is caused by an intense caning session or by edging him. I always find a way to put my slave in a position so that I can do whatever I want while he has his sensitive parts exposed and has completely surrendered to me. Even though some elements of the play can be the same, the implementation can be completely different. I find it very important that a session gives a good feeling, both for me and for the slave. I do not aim to be the best, but what I do, I want to do good.
I enjoy combining things, like pain and eroticism. I love to hit him with full force so I can see the pain in his eyes and then without delay tease him erotically and seduce him. I want to get inside a slave his head. Not literally of course, but I like to let him experience all kinds of things or letting him think that he is. I enjoy teasing slaves in a session, misleading them in such a way they will get an even more intense experience. I regularly mindfuck my slaves.
Stretching limits is something that I love. I can push limits, or move limits without breaking them. I can do that not only with the known limits like the pain threshold, but also with less known limits. When I am doing orgasm control, I will keep him on the edge of coming for as long as possible to teach him to extend how long he can stay there. Some slaves see trying new things as a limit. It is fantastic to see that the trust I give him and the way I handle the new experience makes sure that he will experience that as something positive.
I also like to get my thoughts on paper. I will regularly add articles to my website. It was marvellous to hear from a few slaves that my article about needles convinced them to try it. It is important to me that my website emanates trust and that slaves can get to know me by reading my website.
Biography - Background
Finally, I would like to share some of my biography about my background. I have always had a broad interest in languages, I admire the correct use of a language and playing with words. I speak both Dutch and English fluently and I can give sessions in both languages. I like to travel which I have done a lot. I even lived in Saudi-Arabia and New-Zealand for a while. I come from a gentry heritage and I’m highly educated, I have a sense of style and I value a certain class and etiquette.
Not a single day without BDSM goes by, it has become an important, indispensable part of my life.
Thank you for reading my biography!